Find Your Perfect Mistress
Well with my knowledge of the pro-dom world I’m here to teach you how to find either;
- The perfect mistress; or
- The mistress which is right for you
If you meet a Mistress for the first time, after a quick telephone conversation you must be sure that you have time to talk in the chamber before the session starts. This is because you need to tell her what you expect, what your likes and dislikes are and it allows you to establish whether you feel that there is some kind of connection. You need to feel you trust her just a little. We all know you can’t really trust anyone on a first meeting but I’m sure there will be something that you feel is right.
A Professional Mistress is someone that takes what she does seriously. She is someone who listens to what you have to say rather than cutting the conversation short and going straight in to the session and doing the opposite to what you have just told her.
A mistress that doesn’t do a lot and just uses different equipment on you, one after another and little more, obviously doesn’t really know what they are doing and therefore this is something you need to watch out for what.
What You Need To Be Looking For
- Someone who knows what they’re doing.
- Doesn’t need that much by way of equipment and has an air about herself that makes you want to feel like you want to submit.
- Knows how to control you with out having to put you through pain to get it.
- That knows how far she can take you without having to ask, simply being able to tell by the way you react, she can interpret your body language
A Mistress that is professional will always give you a safety word, especially the novices of this world. If she doesn’t then maybe you should go else where because she isn’t playing safe!
When a Mistress becomes a Mistress there are two reasons why she does it.
- She has heard it’s easy and good money. This is wrong! This is the mistress you should stay away from as they are not really interested in the BDSM scene, it’s just a means to an ends. These Mistresses normally don’t play safe and well in session.
- The second is the Mistress who has always had something to do with the BDSM scene even just at home with their other half or someone who has had a great passion for it and done a lot of research into it. Now this is the mistress you should find...........
How Can You Tell The Difference
Well you can’t really over the phone it’s normally when you visit them and just for the first time that you can tell the fakes from the real Mistresses. And it has nothing to do with the chambers, no not at all. Even if the chambers are done from pillar to post with everything you could wish for, this doesn’t mean a thing. As I said earlier you don’t want someone who just attaches loads of different things to you, this is not a Mistress!
You can tell, mark my words by the questions you will be asked, the way they talk about BDSM as if it is a second language to them, you will know from the air that is around them - we have a certain something.
As you noticed there I said we and that’s because I am one of them, one of the real Mistresses.
Leeds Mistress,
Mistress Athena